BDSM is a kinky fun based on four pillars Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, and Submission. For newcomers, the terminology can be scary.
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Some common BDSM terms to be familiar with….
Aftercare
It is a practice to ensure that everyone involved feels chilled after a scene. It involves emotional care because BDSM releases endorphins.
Bondage
Bondage means tying your partner. The dominant partner generally ties the submissive one with handcuffs, ropes, specialty hooks, or belts.
Cuckold
Cuck is a person that is submissive because they enjoy erotic humiliation like watching another person having sex with his spouse. Female cucks are called cuck queens and males are called bulls.
D/S
D/S means dominance & submission. A person can choose to be dominant or submissive. The dominant partner in the D/S relationship can slap, name-call, or spit on the submissive. The submissive will set boundaries before the scene starts.
Edgeplay
It means the more taboo shit of BDSM. Everyone’s definition differs but knife or blood play is a good example. There is a huge possibility of physical harm in edgeplay.
Foot fetish
Foot fetish means foot attraction, the fetishists enjoy kissing, smelling, massaging licking, sucking, or getting stepped on a foot.
Golden showers
When you shower your partner with your pee or urine, it is called a golden shower.
Hard limit
There are hard limits or off-limit sexual acts, which everyone discusses before BDSM play. For example, you can use a phrase like ‘Please don’t slap hard, it is my hard limit’.
Impact play
It refers to an action that can impact the body like caning, spanking, slapping, flogging, etc.
Japanese bondage, knifeplay, leather, masochist, needleplay, denial, queening, etc. are also some common BDSM terms.
